I find it truly revolting how people classify me based on my gender.?

I particularly care about other how other males perceive me as a unique person and whether I can be valued as an unique individual and not by what is between my legs. This nice Japanese guy in my university mistakenly called me Becky and took the name up anyway, yet this one University staff takes it upon herself to hassle and question me about my name.She is a self-appointed, sexist, gender auditor I told her to ward off further attacks. However, she has since added insult to injury by reporting me to the staff/student grievance and complaints management unit! WTF?! How do I eliminate this stupid person from my life?